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 I believed This week was going to be as equally busy as in previous weeks. I made a dermatology, and I got an alert to sign up online. That was unsuccessful. The mammogram still needs to be scheduled, along with the endocrinologist.

I have my daily work, between the claim forms scanning, mail etc. There wasn’t much mail delivered but I have until Thursday to make sure all of it is up to date. We are having a bosses’ Day lunch on Thursday, and I bought soda on Tuesday

I got the scanning for refund requests all caught up. I have a few piles for the denials that are almost ready. Everything else is done.

It was very cold this week. I don’t want to pull out a heavy coat, but it is getting to the point where I may have to. It was cold in the office as well. Today GA sent out an email letting us know there was a call to fix it.

ON Friday is my echogram and then my trip to Allentown. I will be at their house by three.

Well I have some stuff to do because the vacuuming isn’t getting done tonight.

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This seems to happen all the time.  Some days are slow as molasses while some days fly by.  Today is one of those days.

This morning after I did my text messages for the morning and watched a little tv.  Fed the furball and then went to Honda place and got my car serviced.  I ended up only getting the oil change. 

The other item (noise that sounds like a propeller) is an all day service call.  I must find another day to do it.  I hope to get it done while on vacation I was out of there as expected by 10:30. 

I came home and then went to My sister’s.  She asked me to go with her to Wal-Mart in Stratford, to get new lens in her a few of her frames.  I think it took about an hour and a half.

During that time, we chatted about things.  The optician who had been waiting on her and various stories of the family friends and plans to have dinner at a Thai Restaurant back in Woodmont.

I think it was nearly 12 when we got home Liz went back to her place to take a rest before PT.  I watched TV and had lunch.  Liz and I played Telephone tag because I thought she called me. 

As the afternoon progressed, I took a few showers.  Started not feeling well but by the time I went to bed I was feeling better. 

I worked on this entry and updated files.  I also got a ticket for the Peabody Museum.  Earlier in the evening I contacted LG in Old Saybrook and made plans to go to the Museum on Thursday.

I had my session with Debra at 4:30.  We chatted about my birthday and vacation, family, and of course finances.  We agreed I am in a good space right now.  We will be doing a phone session next week, and not meet the week after but we will be doing zoom near the end of the month. I can't wait to see her.

Well I am going to close out for now and finish watching NCIS and then go to bed.


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Left on Thursday just before  1030.  Made stops at the bank and dunkin donuts.   Then headed to the highway .   I took my regular  route.   Traffic moved pretty well. 


There were brief moments I started to doze.  So I had to make a few stops.   The first was to a rest stop.got coffee in Greenwich.  I was not far from. NY  so got going.  I still had two more hours to go. As i got through NY into New Jersey. I had to pull over a couple times.   I finally made it to my brother and sister-in-law’s house by 215.


Janis Had text early letting Me know jim was going to be released to the rehab  sent that day.  She invited  me to come along.  By the time I got to their house it was decided I would meet them at the hospital. 


So I got there probably by 2: 30.  He was still  In bed.  He was still having some issues with cognitive and memories.   I sat with him and chatted about  the Colonoscopy he mentioned to Liz earlier in the week.   He explained how the latest  fall happened.    Janis confirmed  it when we were driving home.



All the while the nurse was preparing for discharge to the rehab.  The Transport  came after Janis arrived maybe after 430.


We all drove together to phoebe  nursing care rehabilitation. In Allentown.   It is beautiful.   It has assisted  living Across  the street and long term Short  term Rehabilitation.   We dropped him off.  So that he could get settled in⁰


We went back around 7  to visit  jim until he got tired.  Then we went home.  Got ready for bed and did some laundry. 


On Friday Janis and I slept  in .  Then we went to the waffle house at 10.  After that we went to see jim.  While we were there he was  being assessed for his care.   We drove around parts of allentown  .   We also went to a knitting store.   Then we ordered a late lunch early  dinner from panera and headed home to eat and relax. 


We went back to see jim.  He was a bit grumpy.   He told us about the nursing staff taking care of his  arm that seems to Be infected.


We talked about lots of stuff.  He was still having some memory  issues  but it was better than a couple  days Ago. 


Saturday Janis Had to go to work At weight watchers so I slept in a little then I went to see Jim.  Then we went to an apple festival  at Burnside plantation in Bethlehem.  Then we went back later in the day to See jim. 


On Sunday we slept in but I got packed up. Then we went to see jim. We went in separate cars as I was planning on leaving by noon for home.  I did get gas before leaving Allentown, and then made a few stops on the way home.  One was the Phillipsburg IHOP for Lunch and a couple of pit stops.  There were a few slow downs one nearest the Gov Cuomo Bridge, and I guess the regular spots that anyone in the NY, CT area will know.  I did manage to get home by 4:30.


I will be returning to Allentown in mid October while Janis goes to rhinebeck NY for the Sheep and wool festival .  I am not sure if jim will still be in rehab or he will be home but I have offered to be here for him. 


Of course going  down at thanksgiving.  



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There's one more day left until I take my vacation. Almost everything is done and whatever doesn't get done by tomorrow will either wait or Tanya or Annette will have to finish until I get back.

The computer issues that were up on Tuesday were fixed by this morning and everything is working just fine.

We had a brief committee meeting today. Our dinner plans for this weekend have changed for various reasons. So, we will not be meeting this weekend. We will see each other next week for regular committee and then at the picnic on the 14th.  There is our rally on Sunday afternoon at 4IN Greenwich. EV will be picking me up after bingo that day and I will go up with her.

My Birthday Lunch/Dinner with AB, MA has also been moved to next Saturday.  Their schedules had completely changed from when we scheduled this earlier in the week.  I am glad we didn’t make reservations.  Just saying.

Oh, it seems Covid is rising on the campus again.  It was recommended that we wear masks when we can.  All the other precautions also have been listed and recommended as well.  The latest missive arrived today I believe.  I am contemplating on wearing a mask in the office and whenever I am with Liz.

My Rivera Clan all came home from their cruise with Covid.  They were supposed to start school today, but I doubt it.  I will ask Liz tomorrow.  Everyone else seemed fine.  Liz tells me she has bronchitis again.  She will also be monitoring for Covid.  If her Temp goes over 100, she was told to go to hospital.   In our conversation it was agreed that she just wanted to be left alone to sleep and rest.  I let her know that if she needed anything to call me and I would get it.  I won’t be visiting much during my vacation me thinks.

I have yet to call Internal Medicine for them to help me with the glucometer.  For lots of reasons.  I didn’t have time during the week, and they close by the time I get home.  Well maybe tonight they will have been open longer.  Maybe Saturday.  I am taking other meds but not always at the same time.  I know I need to get back to regular with them.

I see Dr. Yang next week.  She will be asking me about that too I am sure.  I am seeing Dr Sonia the following week.  The rest of the time I don’t have many appointments except the infusion.

The New England Regional Chapter of Linden Hall Alumnae has been revving up for the semester.  We are scheduling our next Luncheon and its in Boston.  I just can’t make it this month.  As I said to them via email maybe next time.  I did voice that I want to continue with the zoom meeting and chats.  Let’s hope they let me continue.     

Endicott College in Beverly is having their Homecoming and Reunion Weekend at the end of September.  I have gotten like 4 emails about it.  I just won’t be able to go yet.  I haven’t gone to any of the others either.  I never graduated from there anyway.

Well, that’s about all I have for tonight.  I am getting tired.


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Now I remember what else was going on Saturday!  I got phone calls from Both Dr. Yang and Dr. Gordon Dole.  They told me my sugar levels are up and I need to get more blood work.  I also had to cut the sugars out and to call MY PC.  Dr. Yang changed up the meds.  I am taking a new one atovaquone 750 mg/5 mL suspension.  Commonly known as: MEPRON.  It's gross (like everything else) and messy.  I reduced the prednisone but I have a feeling I needed to wait a little longer.


I did call Internal Med Saturday and had to leave a message.  I got a call in the last couple of days.  They reminded me gently that prednisone is known to raise the sugar levels when using it long term.  THat’s how it is for now.  I am also going to have to get a monitor. 


 Liz Suggested that I look up a different one that they recommended.  To see if the insurance covers it.  I tried but couldn’t find anything on it in my benefits or programs.  I will have to keep trying.


I saw the cardiologist Wednesday.  He is pleased that the BP is down. He wants me to wear the compression socks (did one night) and raise my legs when I am lying down or whatever


I have to admit.  I have still been eating.  I had ice cream after the appointment.  ADding to the bagel and what ever else I had this week.  As I was leaving my meetup on Wednesday I (I hope) Diarrhea.  I had just had shrimp wrap and fries.  I gave up the rest of the fries before leaving.


I had the weird Leg cramps that night too.  I did everything to get rid of it.  Since then I have eaten bananas and made sure I drank water.


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It's been twelve years since my brother Bob passed.  My sister in law posted a Pic of them. As a memory.  It took me until the end of the day to make the connection.   I mentioned  it to both Liz and Jim.  They both realized it too


That day Liz and I went to STaples so that she could get her passport retaken because the earlier ones looked bad for her.  We spent about two hours there in between waiting for the girl, and getting the pictures taken and we looked at IPADS and laptops.


One of the first questions Liz had was “is this an impulse buy”.  My answer was no but I am not ready to get one just yet this is just looking to see what the prices are.  I would prefer a laptop over an IPad or tablet.  I still have to look the reviews up.  There are a couple of the laptops that are on Amazon.


When we finally got home we fixed the swing that had fallen over during the previous night’s weather event(very windy and rainy)


The rest of Saturday is becoming a blur.  Probably watched TV..  When NextDoor Don came home I spent time with them and then came home checked in on LauraG.


Sunday definitely is becoming a blur.  Talked with Jim Late in the day.  He has been cutting back on doing the driving but Janis Has picked it up.  HE tells me he has been falling at least a few times a week.  


I just recently found out that my cousin CArol (and DLH”s Sister) will be retiring to Greece next year with her husband.  The last I knew she was on Disability and HE was working.  Liz has never been fond of Carol and I know I have had my problems with her but we were younger then.


Yesterday was Nelson’s Birthday.  Liz and Rich went to an early dinner but they really didn’t enjoy it.  RIch is having problems swallowing these days and that’s not good.  For Liz it was a day of reflexiveness?






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I was meeting my sister at the Nephrologist.  We got as far as the lobby and I was ahead of her and realized I needed to bring her closer to the elevator.  I turned and tripped over a threshold that was coming up off the floor (and not lifting my foot high enough) and did a complete faceplant on the floor.  Liz helped me up as much as she could.  I had bruises on my face, wrist and knees.  They gave me ice and after the appointment sent me to the ER.


My sister took me over and dropped me off and waited for a bit (parking was limited) . She offered to come inside but she was sort of annoying me.  After about an hour I sent her home.  I finally got triaged about 5:30 and sent back to the main ER.  Where I was put in a hallway in a chair and then eventually on a gurney in the hallway by the nurses station. From time to time checking in with Liz and some of the girls from the meetup.


I was able to get a dinner of cereal,milk, fruit, juice and a sandwich.   It was nearly 10 when I got the CT Scan that took all of 2 minutes.  The results followed soon after.  .  


Liz came and picked me up and took me to my car and I was home by 11 that night.


Good news, no concussion, but a contusion bruises still  remain on the right knee.  forehead the wrist  seems to be hurting for repetitive motion but yhe bruise gone. 



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I have Nephritis.  Its stage 4..not the same as Cancer Stage 4.  It was confirmed after my recent Biopsy.  It went quickly.  ITs in both Kidneys.  I am on a whole bunch of new meds and new strengths of other meds.  Two Words: Horse Pills for a few of them.  


I had to adapt to some of the meds (they made me sick a couple of weeks ago now).  EVery so often I take only milk or water and it  isn’t pretty..  However, I can say I haven’t had the issues I did when I started it.  


My sister went with me to Dr. Sonia last week and we were both relieved (I believe) at the outcome and.can move forward.  Dr. Sonia reassured me that Dialysis and transplant are not in my future.


I don’t have to change much of my diet.  THe sodium and salt basically I do have edema. Taking meds for that.


Until the last few days had been doing my BP  that is until I was getting Discouraged.  I will take it tonight.


Haven’t done the cpap in a week.or more.. 


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Yesterday morning I went to work and by 9:30 I was heading home.  I had a stomach bug.  I am not sure exactly what caused it but you know how sometimes we wonder what may be causing it.  I figured it was the buttered noodles I had a lot of.


So I came home, laid on the couch and then made the first of several trips during the day to the toilet.  As the day progressed it seemed that the events were farther and farther apart.  The only thing I had was water.  I was getting dry mouth too.  I also had a headache..in the back of the head when I slept on a particular pillow.  


I didn’t even go out last night but I did manage to get some sleep so much that I was awake at 4 this morning. I did manage to lay in bed a little bit longer as I do on a daily basis.  Today the headache is gone.


Another thing I need to come clean about is I haven’t been taking my meds for the lupus and BP like I should.  I did take them last night.  It's not that I forget them, it's that I tell myself oh I will take it later by then it's nearly bedtime. 


When I went to the infusion last week as usual the BP was up.  When I saw the Pulmonary Doctor he said that your BP would not be up if you used the cpap machine.  As usual I promised to use it.  I haven’t since then.  Guess what I plan on doing tonight?


I was 226 lbs when I checked in for my infusion last week.  I knew right then what it was.  Not eating the right foods, having too much red meat.  THis is the guilty conscious talking here. I am going to have to do better. 


Liz is still struggling with her health issues.  I am sure Nelson is too.  THey are easily tired by the end of the day.  Liz had her infusion the day after mine.


Rich is home from the hospital now about a week now.  He is back at work and seems to be doing fine.


I am sure everyone else is good.


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All week long I have been training JT to do my job while on vacation.  Unfortunately, JT is overwhelmed.  She has insecurities that are making it hard for her to do this.  At times I can’t help feeling that she is using it as an excuse.  It makes me feel I am not doing what I am supposed to.


We had a surprise visit arranged by our finance dept lead, of Handsome Dan, The Yale Mascot. It was so sweet.  He loved the attention.  We didn’t get a picture.


THere are some administration/management level changes going on for YM and I don’t think they adversely affect the lower staff yet.  IT will be interesting to see in the future.


I start my vacation A week from today.  It's three weeks long (the longest I have taken excluding covid time).  My plans are to catch up on stuff at home, be available for LIz who is moving mid september, some doctor appointments and do day trips and visit with people who are free.


Monday night I had an accident.  I am physically okay but the car has some major dents.  I rear-ended a truck in front of me. I was watching traffic from another direction and thought he already left and he didn’t.  So I spent a couple of days dealing with that with insurance (they were awesome) and arranging rentals and getting repair appointments.


I went to the midweek meetup last night.  There was a small crowd and fun.  I brought food to eat and it fell and so I fed it to the seagull.  The forest park ranger heard me say something to the bird and came over with a  warning.  


As I mentioned Liz and Nelson are in the final stages of moving to a unit in my complex.  We have had some interesting conversation and anticipation of the move.  They did it maybe at the beginning of spring into the summer.  THe officially on it today.


Everyone in their family is great.  They are finishing up the summer vacations and getting ready for school.  There is a Baptism coming up in October for Cheryl and Mike's Granddaughter.  


Angel Brother’s family is okay.  SIL is in Manila for a time.  My Niece DIane is finished with Into the woods and is on vacation I think.  I am not sure what her next plans are.  My Nephew John and his family had to put their fur baby down earlier this month.  


My Brother Jim and his family are for the most part good.  Jim is dealing with Parkinson’s these days.  Other than that they do some volunteering and work.


My health is steady right now.  MY blood pressure was a concern for the lupus doctor, and my Hemotologist was concerned about my iron... But they should be okay now.


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Not the best start to the New Year

Most of January I had been sick with an upper Respiratory Infection. I had a persistent cough that has since subsided. Would try to go to work just to come home again several times. I was exhausted. For a short time I had an enlarged heart but I think its better. Now I have a bruise foot that has been hurting for a while….hope it goes away soon.

Last week we lost my 83 year old cousin. I am not sure how long he was sick. some of us found out by Facebook. I sent texts and emails to cousins that may not have heard. Apparently they did.

This week I will have to let Tiger Lilly cross the Rainbow bridge. We had her annual check up and she is not doing well. She is very underweight and her back leg isn’t doing well either. If you recall about a couple of years ago we discovered she had cancer. I was lucky to have her another year but now its time to let her go. On Thursday afternoon we will say good bye.

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I have been back to work since the 12th from my birthday vacation.  During that time Guardian Angel had  arranged my desks, and suggested with the blessings from my supervisor to do the mail in the huddle room.  Where I have more room.  Even now she thinks I should do the claims there.  I told her no.  She is still opening and getting the mail that came in buckets while I was away and it's almost done.


I also learned my first week back that Supervisor was able to hire a person and she started on Tuesday.  She has been excellent.  She learned very well.  She did some work today but had training for Epic and had the afternoon off.  


Home stuff?  Well bills are getting paid and some are still there.  Still making a list of things to get repaired or replaced once the finances are completely eradicated. My credit rating is good too.  BuTTTTT made the mistake of telling Sis that one of the credit cards is still up there.  She made no comment but I imagine what she has been thinking.  She did ask if I have a financial advisor for when I retire and will I have enough money for retirement.


Community board meetings and general meetings have been held once a month during the week. Just got our first board meeting minutes this past week. Lots going on.


Neighbor Wise we lost Larry of Unit 14 last week he had been having issues. His funeral was this week. I found out via Legacy this week too.


Unit 10 is still planning on moving this time. I found out it was in Silverbrook which is an Orange. Carol told me herself.


Been attending the Wednesday night meetups and we have only a few more weeks before we move it to the diner in Guilford.  I will need to bring a heavy jacket with me so I won’t be cold.  Laurie B the original owner of the Finding friends had a happy hour at Stone bridge and it went well there were six of us.  A part of me is wondering if there will be a powerplay for the entire group now.  Laurie has said she only wants to do things in the Milford area since she lives there and doesn’t want to go traveling.  Gillion and the girls are planning lots of other activities soon.


I haven’t been attending any other Meetup Groups but I hope to change this soon.


The DTC and the city of Milford lost another member earlier this month His name was David Casey.  He was a dear friend over the years and a fellow Woodmont resident.  Ran into some old friends from Woman’s Club too.


The DTC is in full campaign mode and spent a couple of Saturdays doing things.  We have monthly meetings at the Elks club and of course our district meeting  has been held at Headquarters.


The Ladies Guild is going well.  Some of our activities have been moved up or back (I can never tell).  We had the welcome meeting earlier this month and it was lovely. I have returned to church services as well.  Well I have been once in two weeks.  This week I wasn't feeling well.


Health is meh.  Still trying to get BP down and it has been okay.  I had my infusion last week and this week I have various other appointments.


Family is good.   Sis and BIL are over their bronchitis.  They did get to see  their newest great   grandson.  He is a cute button.  The rest of their family is good.  THe grandkids old enough to go to school are getting in that routine.


Angel Brother’s family is good.  The Play INto the Woods has been extended until after the new Year.  So that means for now Diane is still working.  I have been promoting on Facebook to my friends and family.   Nephew John and Tiffany seem to be well.  Rob? I have no idea.  Their mother is keeping busy.   


Jim and Janis are well.  He had cataract surgery and is recovering.  They have invited me to come for Thanksgiving this year.  They are in the Scheming phase of this plan so far.  So hoping to keep fingers crossed.


The cats are doing well.  Sky has been hiding or sleeping in the sofa recliner. THat notion scares me.  Tiger is doing well.



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  • It seems lately I haven’t been feeling great.  Between the sniffling, sneezing and dry coughs.  I had some gastro pains (definitely food related) and my hands cramped up on me a few times at work.  It could be the foods I eat and the stress.  Yes I have been stressed because of work.  There I said it.  That will be under the work entry later.

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  • Anything that doesn’t go smoothly for me I get really frustrated.  If I am typing and the wrong key gets pressed-stupid shit like that.  I dropped the laptop  and that aggravated me.  

One good thing is I did call Standard to get my FMLA application renewal they sent it. But I did have some hard time getting access to it but today got it to work.  It's in the hands of Dr Sonia and hopefully it will be processed by the beginning of March.  I have a number of appointments
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Last night while I was in bed I had a dizzy spell.  Actually I had two while in bed.  I was lying there and the room was spinning.  It passed so I thought and I decided to get up slowly as recommended in article from Mayo Clinic and went to the bathroom and while I was sitting on the throne it happened again.  That one passed and so I decided to go lie down in the Livingroom.  I got up to check the door and wham.  It happened again.  So I could tell I was about to vomit so I headed to the bathroom and did just that.  This all happened sometime after midnight.  I think I fell asleep a short time later.

The snow came around 9 and lasted until about 10:30.  It was basically a coating and was washed away by the rain that followed.  I could hear the wind coming through though.  It had been raining most of the morning but the sun came out.

I have heard from my sister who also sent me a coupon for coffee from Christmas Tree Shop.  I would have had to get it by today.  I decided not to.  She still has a cough.  She didn’t have much damage at her home. 

I heard from Jim via text they got snow last night that ended last night and not amounting to much either.  It seems they were getting the same weather we did.  Snow showers were expected here.

Well I ended up not working in the office after all.  I wasn’t feeling well still and I got tired.  I vacuumed the house and put it in the guestroom/office.  I decided to sleep.

I did have a late lunch of scrambled eggs as I wasn’t sure my stomach could handle much more.  The glass of milk wasn’t bad either.  Not sure I am in the mood to make dinner or the chicken. 

 

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Even though I am making progress with the mail I am still behind.  I am also trying to keep up with the claim forms but the printers have not been working since the upgrade.  So I have a couple of patients to scan to the rep.  I am also trying to keep up with CD uploading and it’s hit a snag with one of them.    Good thing? We have Monday off for Martin Luther King’s Birthday.

I almost missed the staff meeting and basically making sure we had our vaccines and boosters uploaded for them to have on record.  I did mine at lunch time.  Supervisor reviewed protocol for the time we can use (they pay for five days) it’s a one-time deal.

The printer that prints out the HFCA claim form was working by lunchtime so after the meeting and after finishing the CD uploads (yes I caught up with those) I worked on mailing out the claim forms.  I think I was done by 2:30-3 and right about then I got an email from Supervisor asking me if the printer was working.   I explained yes they were and the one claim form for one of our Reimbursement people was scanned to her (but she doesn’t have access to email as she and a few others took even longer weekend then I am. 

I still have to finish the mail I was working on and sort it.  I still have to work on the Health logic correspondence as well.  Then work on everything else.  My hope is to go in early on Tuesday.  I will do the claim forms first and then the mail.

AT lunchtime I wrote another email to Attorney B2 to see if there was any progress made with Lawyer man 1.  I haven’t heard from him yet.   I am already preparing a strongly worded email to him if he doesn’t respond to this one.

It looks like I will have to do another sleep study.  The last one failed.  She is not sure what happened but it has been known to happen which it only recorded 59 minutes of sleep and that’s not enough so we scheduled another one for the 26th.  This time it will be in the lab in West Haven.  The follow up appointment was moved to February 15th in West Haven.   So I will come home and feed the cats and pack an overnight bag.  I am thinking I will take a personal day off for that week.

My fellow LH Alumnae continue to have a sad week.  One of my classmates lost her husband this week.  I don’t know the circumstances but I need to get her a card to her and her family this week.  There is an obituary finally for Mrs. Herr.  I learned many things from this obituary.  For Example she is also a member of the GFWC international organization.  She was part of woman’s club in Lititz.  I wonder if she attended any of the International conventions. I am trying to read up on Manheim. 

OH and I discovered that my meetup friend Krystal was not in the Waterbury fire but this one.  I am familiar with the area.  I have been further North of there were there were some beautiful homes and such.

I had coffee tonight and surprisingly I am tired.  So I am going to take the hint and go to bed and listen to Profiles in Folk before falling  asleep.

Jan. 11th, 2022 05:39 pm

Crazy Day

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Got to work and found out there was a major network upgrade going for the building.  It is not affecting remote work but for those who work in the office and the equipment and internet it does.   I have plenty of work for myself.  I will have to share with others until they get the okay to go home.  It was to last until 2 pm.  It had others annoyed because it’s wasting time for them.  They were told they would have used their time even if after they learned they have permission to go home.

I could use my phone for emails and texting.  Get to a few places on the internet but it was not easy. 

I had VT help open mail until we got word to go home which came around 11.  I did some of the claim forms to mail and then began working on the rest of the mail from before the recess. When the call came I turned it down until I realized I couldn’t print anything or scan anything.  I decided to come home.

On the way home I was getting annoyed with the GPS because it wouldn’t take me to the Merritt parkway but to I-95.  I did manage another route called Route 34 which goes through west haven, orange and then to where I needed to get off.  Wht was really bothering me I think was the potential discussion with Liz about if and when it comes up.  I was thinking she would have said things like why couldn’t I have stayed?  The same things that Mom would have said if she were living,  I think Liz would have said you thought you were entitled to go home.  I expect she would make a few other comments of how lucky I am.  I have a feeling it would not end well.

Since I have been home I watched TV, had some coffee finished putting up the shower curtains I washed this morning.  I believe Miss Tiger had done her job in there.  It’s been a while since she did that particular ahem.

 Every few days it seems Tiger craps on the floor or even in the shower stall.   (Yes I have been cleaning the box regularly)She is still not eating all of her food quickly but she has been eating Sky’s.  She has been sitting on the couch a lot and just as of last night sat on the recliner below Sky.  She does still come to the bed some nights.  She is limping and on occasionally knuckles but I try to get it flattened out.

Sky continues to hold his own.  He does try and eat Tiger’s dish but I have stopped him so many times I am hoping he has been doing it on his own.  There are some nights he has been vocal which has lead me to believe he has seen something or done something. He still sleeps on top of the recliner. 

This afternoon I had my cardiology appointment and he says other than the weight I am fine.  He needs me to work on it.  It was down considerably from last time.  Hell it was down half a pound from last month.  I will see him in a year.

Tonight will be quiet.  I am trying to not watch too much TV.  I still have the second night of the sleep study to do.  It wasn’t bad either.  I have to bring it back tomorrow morning before noon.  I will do that after my infusion.

It was in the teens today for temperatures and they haven’t gotten any warmer. It will be cold for the next couple of days and cloudy the next two nights. Saturday will be cold and cloudy.  Will be burying myself under lots of blankets.

 

 

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It certainly has been awhile hasn’t it?  I hope your holidays have been excellent.  Mine so far have.  Thanksgiving I spent it with Jim and his new Bride in Allentown.  The ride down was not bad.   I left work just around 3 and made it to the Connecticut Border by 4.  The traffic was slow moving an basically because of the Sun setting before 4. The Drive to the bridge formerly known as Tappan Zee was good but slow. I had only one problem and I missed the exit I needed I happened to be talking to my sister at the time.  I took the next exit and I was right as rain.  I made it to J&J’s by 7:15.  After some visiting and meeting a couple of the cats I headed to bed.

Thanksgiving began with a breakfast for us and getting acquainted with the cats (who came into my room at night) we got ready for our late afternoon meal.  We had to pick up our catered meal from Wegman’s Grocery Store.  We had turkey (it was sliced), we had string beans, gravy and stuffing, and butternut squash with spinach, and garlic mashed potatoes and an assortment of pies.  Janis’s Daughter Laurie and her boyfriend joined us.  I can’t remember when they left but after they did my brother went to bring a meal to a friend of theirs

On Friday we had a quiet morning and then made our way to Bethlehem for the ChristKindlemarkt festival. It was held at the Bethlehem Stacks.  Although it wasn’t snowing it could have easily because it was so cold and windy.  WE were there for two hours looking at all the vendors and crafts.  I don’t usually go to these things but I figured when I am “In Rome you do what Rome does.  I just did window shopping while Jim bought a few things including a handmade wooden ornament in the shape of a cat for me.

This area was really cool.  Youngling beer donated a tall tree built out of kegs for the area.  There was a cultural arts theater, and gallery plus the local PBS station in this area.  Every time I looked at the stacks I couldn’t help but think of the scene in the Wiz….in the factory?  Oh and for all you casino lovers Wind Creek was down the street from this.

After the Festival we came home I think it was nearly 5 or 6 and we ordered pizza from Wegman’s (they have everything there).  WE finished our meal with left over pie.  The rest of the night we did our own thing.  J&J got rid of cable so they either get on their computer to watch things or meetings and I got on my computer for a while.  Did I do any writing? No. 

I did get packed up for my trip home the next day and called it early night.

Saturday morning we had a semi early breakfast and then Janis had to go to work at Weight watchers.  After some sibling time I left for home.  Jim had given me a suggestion about where to get gas but as I was leaving I didn’t listen to the gps and ended up taking a wrong turn but still ended up on in the right direction an was on my way.  I stopped in Easton for gas.  The rest of the ride was fine.  It got busy by the time I got to Connecticut but I was home by 12:30.

When I arrived I found my stoop decorated.  Actually I was warned by Liz that my phantom decorator had been over and put a wood and apple wreath on the door and got rid of the plant and filled it with metal stand that has a gift wrapped on it. 

When I came inside the cats didn’t move much from their spots.  Sky was under the blankets of my bed and Tiger was under the coffee table.  While I was away Liz watched them for me.  She kept me apprised of the days.  She did notice a few of my concerns with Tiger (will explain shortly) and she says they basically ignored her or didn’t come out of their hiding spots.

The rest of the weekend was quiet.  I did get some cards down from upstairs.  I haven’t done them yet but I will I hope this weekend.

Since I have been home I haven’t done much in the way of the holiday.  I did look up a couple of things for the holiday but I am hoping to get them next week.

I have been trying to focus on the budgets and it’s still a challenge.  I did apply and was approved for the balance transfer and began making payments on that.  My hope is that the budget will get under control by the New Year.

Some of my appliances are beginning to show their age.  The washing machine continues to make a noise.  The stove shuts itself off while I am cooking at times.

HOA Board elections are coming up.   They sent out notice and self-nomination bids for those who want to nominate themselves.  I was thinking about it but decided not yet.  Then we got word recently that the fall clean-up was halted because the guy who does it for us just disappeared and hasn’t been returning any communication.

A couple of the board members came to look for the outdoor spicket for the hoses outside.  Apparently there isn’t one in my unit.  This was the longest amount of time that President Frank and Carol were in my unit. J

We got more news on my brother’s latest cancer diagnosis. If I haven’t mentioned it yet it’s in the bladder slow growing.  It’s not fatal or metastases’ but will keep an eye on it.  He doesn’t seem worried about it so I won’t worry about it either.

His kids are okay.  All Busy and getting into the holiday.  I will hate to break it to them but I won’t be getting them presents this year.  MY advisor really feels A) they haven’t gotten me anything in a few years and neither has Jim.

Liz woke up to a cold this morning.  She has been keeping busy and had a fairly quiet holiday.  She watched the twins for me.  She said they were rude to her.  She did notice that Tiger is struggling more than before.

WE discussed the budget this past week and I told her how I have been doing and she asked if I used the CC and I answered her.  She suggested that I make the CC payments both at the beginning of the month and on Time.  The first one is questionable but I will try and  the second is a no brainer.

I was able to see a few of her kids this past weekend.  First it was Rich and then Adam and his son Josh stopped by and also my cousin DLH.

Both Liz and I agree that Tiger is struggling more and more.  A number of times I have watched her and she will walk and all of a sudden stop and then drop her head to the floor.  Its not like when she is sleeping and her head turns upside down.  I can see she struggles to get her footing.  Then she starts walking (with some limping).  She is starting to not finish her food when given to her but she does eat from Sky’s bowl.  She does get up on the bed sometimes with no problems.  She gets on the couch with no problem most time and then sits down.  She has been sitting under the side table by the recliner or behind the entertainment center.  I am not sensing she is dying yet or she needs to be put down.  I do have to order more meds this week so I will mention it to the vet when she calls to get an update.

Sky is his sweet self.  Sleeping with me most nights and cuddling up with Tiger. Sometimes they get feisty with each other but every time I leave the house I talk to him like he can understand that I need him to take care of his sister but at the same time don’t aggravate her.

Work is going fine.  Some days are busier than others.  We are still preparing to move to the third floor but I recently learned that now we won’t be moving until after the recess. That’s okay by me because I haven’t made time to get rid of stuff I don’t need anymore. 

WE were informed last week from High up that parking for those who have to come to the campus will not have to pay until July 2022.  Right now I am relieved because I can use that money for something else.

New Covid regulations have come down as well.  Those who are working remotely have to follow the covid protocol. 

End of semester and holiday parties are starting.  We have a couple next week and few retirements as well.  I was supposed to go to one on Monday but it was cancelled.

The ladies guild has one more activity or two going before the New Year comes in.  I believe the lawn angels (that the lead priest has been complaining about) fundraiser is going on now.  We have our last general meeting this coming Tuesday and I think I picked out a nice spiritual prayer.  I just have to bring some type of appetizers.

The DTC has been quiet for the last couple of weeks. Actually it looks like I missed a Holiday gathering alert for this Tuesday but I already have the ladies guild. We had to clean out the campaign Headquarters but I couldn’t do it.

My meetup groups have been busy.  Walk with buddy has been having mini fests, and toy drives.  The hiking group has had a few hikes on weekends but I have been either busy with The finding friends activities or taking care of the house.

I think I am over the latest Lupus flare up.  I got a call just before I took off for Allentown from the Dr. Letting me know that the recent blood tests indicated I was in the midst of a flare up.  That would explain the aches and pains and me being tired a lot.  I have been going to bed early and taking my meds fairly regularly.  I have my infusion next week.

I actually have a number of appointments next week and I think the week after but I am not sure. 

 

 

 

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Good Morning everyone, its 42 degrees and sunny at the moment but will be changing later today as we are supposed to get rain, high winds, and perhaps hale.  As I just said to my brother via text that’s just great.  I am having a friend come for visit for lunch.

This week has been a fairly busy and somewhat wild week.  I was ending up not writing anything because I was too tired and pretty much going to bed early for most of the week.  I say most but there were  a few nights I tried to stay up late and work.

Last Sunday Sis and I had a rather uncomfortable discussion about finances.  She was insisting she look at them and I kept setting boundaries.  She came to the conclusion I was hiding stuff.  That I haven’t been doing as I promised getting the credit card balances down or staying on the budget.  That I must be “lying” about things to Debra or don’t tell Debra the whole story.  She qualified that statement with “Not really lying but we give ourselves permission” to do things.

She sent me a text the next day that I need to be vigilant on keeping up with the bill paying (and I told her a few times that I have been paying the bills, when she asked.  She asked a bunch of questions about how I was paying for the car whether it was with the credit card or what.  What state my bank account was at (over drawn).  Anyway, the veiled threat was I could lose everything, including the condo.  She said it wasn’t a threat but a real possibility.  Again I feel like I need to scream at her and say those are getting paid. 

She constantly challenges me in the wrong way.  IF I am baking or getting ready for parties: or planning on attending events.  Its either oh you could do this, or that.  Why don’t you get everyone a little gift?   Um hello?  You say I should not go spending on stuff yet you want me to get all this?  I told her I don’t buy extravagantly.  She thinks I should give my friend Dave a high-end gift.  It made me angry. 

When I told Debra all this she reminded me that. When Liz does this just say Hey thanks but I am going to do this or thanks I will think about it.  If Liz insists I can tell her no I don’t want to discuss finances, or review it monthly as Liz wants to according to her text.  I can tell her she is my sister, not my guardian, or care taker, or my mother. 

In other sibling news Brother J texted us to inform that the biopsy he had earlier in the week went well.  It was in his bladder.  However, the results not really great, its slow growing and non-invasive.  When Liz first heard this she said you didn’t say anything about it.   He didn’t say anything to me. 

In between all that, I have been trying to organize my budgets (making ledgers) and working, and getting ready for my friends visit this afternoon.

Right now the house is almost cleaned I have to wash the kitchen floor and then shower, and prepare lunch.

 

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Sometime after lunch I got the results of my test.  I checked in before I got the email alerting me they were posted.  These and all medical tests never can be in layman’s terms.  The gist is I basically don’t have it.  As usual they caution you about still taking precautions and stuff like that.

So I let Liz know, and the girls from the group know.  I hadn’t told J&J but I will another time.   Now the coffee visit with Liz is on for tomorrow.  So I did the grocery shopping this evening.

I took the time to order more litter.  I tried to change the item to a different brand but I was doing something wrong.  I was rushing through it and it was aggravating me.

Gillion just offered a Christmas/Holiday Movie night at her house in December.   It’s the first weekend of December.  Oh I wonder if I could bake something for that weekend.  It will be a week after Thanksgiving and I may have only the Board meeting to do.  I am a cohost and will be bringing wings.

I managed to get dusting done and went grocery shopping around 4; 30 5 pm.  I got a lot of stuff and I got some I didn’t need.  I ran into Susan from the Finding friends Group.  I also met this nice lady whom I kept running into in all the lanes.  It turns out we parked next to each other and had a nice chat.  I finally got home around 6.

I put the groceries away and fed the cats and ate the ice cream.  Later on I had open face grilled cheese.  It was a bad idea.  It didn’t sit well with me.

I spent the evening watching Polar Express.  I think it was a tad early for this but with all the Macy’s Christmas ads and JC Penny Christmas ads and the rest of them why should I be surprised.

Since I didn’t clear off my bed of the laundry, I decided to sleep on the couch.  So I am going to sleep now.

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I was feeling blah today.  I was still reeling over the money I shelled out for the new glasses I got on Tuesday.  There was a discount program at the place and insurance wouldn’t have covered it.  The reading strength was changed.   I had to use a credit card so I was also anxious over that.  The Doctor was pleased with everything else.  Unfortunately, my eyes were dilated until about 8 so that made me tired.

 

As I was leaving for the meeting last night the emergency squad pulled up and headed to Neighbor Mim’s unit.  I didn’t go over but I couldn’t help but start to cry.   I didn’t see her family there but if they were I didn’t want to intrude.  I had to maneuver around the fire truck because it was blocking me.  As I was driving towards the driveway some of the ladies I chatted with were watching from their prospective homes.  I felt guilty for not visiting Mim more than I have.  When I got home tonight it looked like her children were there.  I will wait until I see one of the others.

 

The ladies guild meeting went well.  My co chair had an emergency so she wasn’t there but things were in place for the membership list update.  I brought that home with me and I will add it to the list I have on the laptop.  I realized while there that I needed 6 bottles of the soda but President Pat didn’t seem to think so but JanetM did.  Happily there were little cans of soda in the on site refrigerator.  So all is well but next time I will bring six bottles.

 

Today was the mid day rally.  My friend Barb was supposed to pick me up at 11:40. She was late.  I was getting anxious.  I called her and she sounded like she forgot.  It had started by the time we got there but we joined in and it was for an hour.  I was back at the office before one. 

 

I split my time between scanning and the cd uploading and I was having some issues.  The site I use kept signing out quickly in the middle of the upload.  I had a lot of them to do this time.  I had to call KC to discuss some of it.  She is very helpful.

 

Today was the Midweek Hammonasset meetup.  I decided to go out there straight from work.  I thought I was the first but there were a couple of first timers that got to the jetty before I did. After a while there were at least 12 of us. I jumped in as leader and did what Gillion would do and have everyone introduce themselves and a couple of things that were either good or bad about their week.  It was really fun.  We stayed until 7:30 as the park closed at  sunset.  Some of our friends were unable to join us.

 

You could tell there was a storm somewhere off the east coast because the surf was hard and the wind was strong.  There seemed to be a couple of families doing a celebration at the beach.  They were dressed in conservative dresses and veils of sorts.  It was really nice.

 

On the way home I called Mama and we talked the entire ride home.  I told her all the news that was fit to print (attribute that to the NYTimes).  It was after 8 when I got home and finished our conversation.

 

As I was getting out of the car I noticed both cats were at the windows.  Tiger was up on the couch.  Sky was on the ledge.  Seeing Tiger up there meant to me she was feeling pretty good but then she has been up there a few times while I was sitting there in the past week or so.

 

I got the condo, fed them, and then got my own dinner and sat down to watch the rest of the NCIS marathon on WETV.  I am really glad it is now on several different channels and more than it used to be in the last few years.  I actually ended up falling asleep while watching the episodes.

 

As a result I didn’t work on the reservations for the weekend of JIm’s wedding.  Liz was able to find the b&B for me at a lower price. I will get it done tomorrow.  I just hope I didn’t mess it up earlier.  The site doesn’t recognize my number as a valid number.

 

Now I am going to bed...

 

 

 

 

 

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