It certainly has been awhile hasn’t it? I hope your holidays have been excellent. Mine so far have. Thanksgiving I spent it with Jim and his new Bride in Allentown. The ride down was not bad. I left work just around 3 and made it to the Connecticut Border by 4. The traffic was slow moving an basically because of the Sun setting before 4. The Drive to the bridge formerly known as Tappan Zee was good but slow. I had only one problem and I missed the exit I needed I happened to be talking to my sister at the time. I took the next exit and I was right as rain. I made it to J&J’s by 7:15. After some visiting and meeting a couple of the cats I headed to bed.
Thanksgiving began with a breakfast for us and getting acquainted with the cats (who came into my room at night) we got ready for our late afternoon meal. We had to pick up our catered meal from Wegman’s Grocery Store. We had turkey (it was sliced), we had string beans, gravy and stuffing, and butternut squash with spinach, and garlic mashed potatoes and an assortment of pies. Janis’s Daughter Laurie and her boyfriend joined us. I can’t remember when they left but after they did my brother went to bring a meal to a friend of theirs
On Friday we had a quiet morning and then made our way to Bethlehem for the ChristKindlemarkt festival. It was held at the Bethlehem Stacks. Although it wasn’t snowing it could have easily because it was so cold and windy. WE were there for two hours looking at all the vendors and crafts. I don’t usually go to these things but I figured when I am “In Rome you do what Rome does. I just did window shopping while Jim bought a few things including a handmade wooden ornament in the shape of a cat for me.
This area was really cool. Youngling beer donated a tall tree built out of kegs for the area. There was a cultural arts theater, and gallery plus the local PBS station in this area. Every time I looked at the stacks I couldn’t help but think of the scene in the Wiz….in the factory? Oh and for all you casino lovers Wind Creek was down the street from this.
After the Festival we came home I think it was nearly 5 or 6 and we ordered pizza from Wegman’s (they have everything there). WE finished our meal with left over pie. The rest of the night we did our own thing. J&J got rid of cable so they either get on their computer to watch things or meetings and I got on my computer for a while. Did I do any writing? No.
I did get packed up for my trip home the next day and called it early night.
Saturday morning we had a semi early breakfast and then Janis had to go to work at Weight watchers. After some sibling time I left for home. Jim had given me a suggestion about where to get gas but as I was leaving I didn’t listen to the gps and ended up taking a wrong turn but still ended up on in the right direction an was on my way. I stopped in Easton for gas. The rest of the ride was fine. It got busy by the time I got to Connecticut but I was home by 12:30.
When I arrived I found my stoop decorated. Actually I was warned by Liz that my phantom decorator had been over and put a wood and apple wreath on the door and got rid of the plant and filled it with metal stand that has a gift wrapped on it.
When I came inside the cats didn’t move much from their spots. Sky was under the blankets of my bed and Tiger was under the coffee table. While I was away Liz watched them for me. She kept me apprised of the days. She did notice a few of my concerns with Tiger (will explain shortly) and she says they basically ignored her or didn’t come out of their hiding spots.
The rest of the weekend was quiet. I did get some cards down from upstairs. I haven’t done them yet but I will I hope this weekend.
Since I have been home I haven’t done much in the way of the holiday. I did look up a couple of things for the holiday but I am hoping to get them next week.
I have been trying to focus on the budgets and it’s still a challenge. I did apply and was approved for the balance transfer and began making payments on that. My hope is that the budget will get under control by the New Year.
Some of my appliances are beginning to show their age. The washing machine continues to make a noise. The stove shuts itself off while I am cooking at times.
HOA Board elections are coming up. They sent out notice and self-nomination bids for those who want to nominate themselves. I was thinking about it but decided not yet. Then we got word recently that the fall clean-up was halted because the guy who does it for us just disappeared and hasn’t been returning any communication.
A couple of the board members came to look for the outdoor spicket for the hoses outside. Apparently there isn’t one in my unit. This was the longest amount of time that President Frank and Carol were in my unit. J
We got more news on my brother’s latest cancer diagnosis. If I haven’t mentioned it yet it’s in the bladder slow growing. It’s not fatal or metastases’ but will keep an eye on it. He doesn’t seem worried about it so I won’t worry about it either.
His kids are okay. All Busy and getting into the holiday. I will hate to break it to them but I won’t be getting them presents this year. MY advisor really feels A) they haven’t gotten me anything in a few years and neither has Jim.
Liz woke up to a cold this morning. She has been keeping busy and had a fairly quiet holiday. She watched the twins for me. She said they were rude to her. She did notice that Tiger is struggling more than before.
WE discussed the budget this past week and I told her how I have been doing and she asked if I used the CC and I answered her. She suggested that I make the CC payments both at the beginning of the month and on Time. The first one is questionable but I will try and the second is a no brainer.
I was able to see a few of her kids this past weekend. First it was Rich and then Adam and his son Josh stopped by and also my cousin DLH.
Both Liz and I agree that Tiger is struggling more and more. A number of times I have watched her and she will walk and all of a sudden stop and then drop her head to the floor. Its not like when she is sleeping and her head turns upside down. I can see she struggles to get her footing. Then she starts walking (with some limping). She is starting to not finish her food when given to her but she does eat from Sky’s bowl. She does get up on the bed sometimes with no problems. She gets on the couch with no problem most time and then sits down. She has been sitting under the side table by the recliner or behind the entertainment center. I am not sensing she is dying yet or she needs to be put down. I do have to order more meds this week so I will mention it to the vet when she calls to get an update.
Sky is his sweet self. Sleeping with me most nights and cuddling up with Tiger. Sometimes they get feisty with each other but every time I leave the house I talk to him like he can understand that I need him to take care of his sister but at the same time don’t aggravate her.
Work is going fine. Some days are busier than others. We are still preparing to move to the third floor but I recently learned that now we won’t be moving until after the recess. That’s okay by me because I haven’t made time to get rid of stuff I don’t need anymore.
WE were informed last week from High up that parking for those who have to come to the campus will not have to pay until July 2022. Right now I am relieved because I can use that money for something else.
New Covid regulations have come down as well. Those who are working remotely have to follow the covid protocol.
End of semester and holiday parties are starting. We have a couple next week and few retirements as well. I was supposed to go to one on Monday but it was cancelled.
The ladies guild has one more activity or two going before the New Year comes in. I believe the lawn angels (that the lead priest has been complaining about) fundraiser is going on now. We have our last general meeting this coming Tuesday and I think I picked out a nice spiritual prayer. I just have to bring some type of appetizers.
The DTC has been quiet for the last couple of weeks. Actually it looks like I missed a Holiday gathering alert for this Tuesday but I already have the ladies guild. We had to clean out the campaign Headquarters but I couldn’t do it.
My meetup groups have been busy. Walk with buddy has been having mini fests, and toy drives. The hiking group has had a few hikes on weekends but I have been either busy with The finding friends activities or taking care of the house.
I think I am over the latest Lupus flare up. I got a call just before I took off for Allentown from the Dr. Letting me know that the recent blood tests indicated I was in the midst of a flare up. That would explain the aches and pains and me being tired a lot. I have been going to bed early and taking my meds fairly regularly. I have my infusion next week.
I actually have a number of appointments next week and I think the week after but I am not sure.