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Not the best start to the New Year

Most of January I had been sick with an upper Respiratory Infection. I had a persistent cough that has since subsided. Would try to go to work just to come home again several times. I was exhausted. For a short time I had an enlarged heart but I think its better. Now I have a bruise foot that has been hurting for a while….hope it goes away soon.

Last week we lost my 83 year old cousin. I am not sure how long he was sick. some of us found out by Facebook. I sent texts and emails to cousins that may not have heard. Apparently they did.

This week I will have to let Tiger Lilly cross the Rainbow bridge. We had her annual check up and she is not doing well. She is very underweight and her back leg isn’t doing well either. If you recall about a couple of years ago we discovered she had cancer. I was lucky to have her another year but now its time to let her go. On Thursday afternoon we will say good bye.

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On monday on my way home I stopped at Hungry Panda Chinese takeout place down the street.  It was about 30 plus dollars because I got the quart size of sweet and sour shrimp and 2 sodas.  It was good.  Although that night and Tuesday I was reading some mixed reviews.


I had my session with Debra but we had to move it to 6:15 because she had a previous meeting.  It looks like going forward we will be moving it to Tuesdays at 5 :30.  I did let her know that the second Tuesday I have the ladies guild.  But she will see if she can move the other  meeting earlier.


We had some issues with the Zoom but all I had to do is sign back in.  I really can’t wait to get my freaking laptop.  It won’t be for a while though.


I hit the sack at 8:30 that night and I slept pretty well with the CPAP machine.  That is until the titans decided they wanted to wrestle at 4 in the morning, again.   Tiger held her own. I think I was afraid I would get slashed or scratched from them.  


Tuesday was not as busy as I would have liked it.  There didn’t seem to be as much mail and GA was doing a whole bunch of clearing out and TD (who is doing an awesome job) was being trained for the cash posting part of the job by Supervisor Bob.  We both worked on the bin mail that GA wanted to touch later but i keep remembering what she told me that It's up to me to decide to work on it.  TD has been doing that too.


AC hasn’t been in all week and she was supposed to be training TD on the scanning.  Last week, AC asked me or told me she would train TD so I haven’t gone into it much.  I told TD the documents we have batched and delivered will eventually end up in the scanning area.  IF AC doesn’t come in tomorrow.  I will show TD the claim forms and what I do there.


I did my daily texting with the groups.  Liz and Nelson have colds again.  So her plans for Tuesday night changed.  


When I left the office yesterday I headed home.  I was sorely tempted to order out again and go look at vacuums but did neither.  I made salmon and onions and fed the cats and did laundry.  I didn’t even go walking.  I watched some TV and straightened up and then got ready for bed


The cats did their own thing.  Sky was vocalizing and I have no idea why.  He also has been pulling away from me  as well.  They got fed early this morning and will be fed late tonight.


I have the midweek Meetup tonight.  Gill had to change venues, we will be meeting at the diner starting tonight because it's been colder and getting darker earlier (last night sunset in Milford was at 6:40 pm).  I believe she is out of state right now so she asked a few to keep an eye out for newbies. 


Plans for the halloween party are progressing wonderfully.  I will not be able to attend as the Ladies Guild auction is the same night. I see that Petsitter is planning a weekend thing in late November.


Sadly the walking Milford group is gone.  I just couldn’t see spending money for the group (if I took over the group).  I am sure Joan is disappointed but I just can’t do it.  Even Laurie B says it cost more than that.


I need to see the other groups I am a member of and make sure I don’t get removed for inactivity.  


Tomorrow is the DTC. I got two emails, one from 5th District Chairman Alex and one from DTC Justin.  We are having Susan Brown from Purple Pantry Boxes speak to us on feeding the hungry in the city.


I guess that’s all the news I have and I still have claim forms to send out and a few other things while TD does the limited amount of mail again.


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Today is Sky’s turn to go see Dr.SashaG for his annual checkup.  I will put him in the crate just before we leave.  It is usually a stressful time for both any of us at that time.  He has been fed and watered but he has not been forthcoming with the poop.  That’s another reason I am delaying his crating.  Well maybe it will be easy to get him in the crate.  He just crawled under the covers.  Oh the crate door has been open all week. 

However, Tiger has been more than willing to poop.  I guess she got tired of pooping on the bathroom floor and the shower stall because about 6 in the morning she was dropping the crap at the front door.  So in between writing I am deep cleaning the boxes.   Of course she was told it was naughty but if you follow me for a long time you know I don’t stay mad at them for long.  I always think of what was my part in it? 

I have found Tiger in her normal spots for lounging in the Livingroom.  She has also sat on one of the self-warming beds I have in front of the entertainment center.  On Wednesday I think I may have posted a picture of the two of them sleeping behind each other and I called it synchronizing cat napping.  They both had their paws out.  IT was really funny.

It is now a couple of hours later and we are home.  He was quite vocal on the way there and a few times while there.   We signed up for the Vax4life program so I won’t have to worry about prices in the future.  I opted to not get blood work done but got him the bravecto flea thing and will get that again in June.  This whole thing came to $277.  Now he is back under the covers sleeping. 

I was thinking of going to the pet supply store and get a few more cans of wet food because I have 3 days’ worth and the next delivery is on the 18th.  If I run out of the can I will just give them the kibble until the delivery next week.

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It’s been a few days since I had a chance to write.  Wednesday I went to the meetup in Guilford.  There were many of us and it was great.  There were ten of us and we talked about everything.  Some sad some funny, and it was great.  We were there until about 7:30 or so.  Next week the diner is closed for break and so we are going to meet at Paula L’s home.  I can’t wait.  Stephanie invited us to a super bowl party before the weekend started but by Saturday night had to cancel because she has to work.

The Move at work went pretty well.  Some of us got to move a lot of our stuff up Thursday and Friday we were all set up with our Computers our phones were not however.  I wasn’t able to finish everything that day with the mail but there is always Monday.  I have Wednesday off for my infusion.  I still have to fill out paper work for the secondary FMLA insurance we acquired. 

All week long we had clouds and semi warm temperatures (mid-thirties).  Thursday and Friday we had rain and some icy conditions but that didn’t happened to Friday into Saturday.  Many Schools were closed in anticipation for the storm.   The snow and ice melted by Saturday afternoon when it hit the mid-twenties.  Sunday was sunny and in the teens in the morning and 26 as the day progressed.

The cats are doing well.  Tiger has been taking her meds successfully.  I noticed she walked normally on her lame leg for about ten minutes.  Other than they have been sleeping, sitting, and doing cat things.  I just ordered more litter last night and hope it will be here by Monday.

I cleaned the house on Saturday but it didn’t seem to last long.  I will clean it again on Wednesday after my infusion.  I spent the rest of the day in my pajamas and watched TV.    I took a few naps too.

Sunday I did laundry.  There wasn’t a lot to do but I wanted to get it done early.  I sent the dishwasher through as well because the cat dishes were all used up.  I did some other stuff and then in the afternoon I went to do bingo.  I went grocery shopping at Big Y.

I didn’t do the taxes yet because I needed to check one more place for some information and they don’t have weekend hours (the mutual funds account I have). I definitely will do it sooner rather than later.


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Jan. 21st, 2022 09:30 pm

Vet Visit

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Today was the Tiger’s annual checkup at the vet.  I went to work in the morning and came home at lunch time.  I had it all planned out that I wouldn’t add stress to her and so I waited until just before 1:30 to put her in the crate.  It took a few moments but I got her in.  She was vocal for a good ten minutes and then stopped.  We left here around 20 of 2.  The place is literally 5 minutes away. 

I was projecting how the whole thing would go with the vet.  Would she insist that now would be the right time to put Tiger down if whatever she has is progressive?  Would she insist Tiger get both vaccinations if I decline?  What happens if persist on knowing the fees for the vaccines or even x-rays.

She didn’t and it was fine.  I did end up getting both shots.  The distemper is good for three years.  The rabies is yearly.  I might consider signing up for their program for $125 and the shots will be free.   Dr. G wants me to cut back on kibble so that she can lose weight so that the rest of the legs don’t take on the lame leg.  This came to $150.  I am expecting the same for Sky next month.

 When we came home she was vocalizing a little and I let her out of her crate and of course Sky was getting fresh with her.  He hissed at her again and pawed her.  I scolded him.  Now that its quarter of nine, they are both sleeping on the bed with me.  Tiger is being cuddly on some level. 

I ordered more litter and more greenies tonight.  I have been putting them in her mouth since she won’t take it any other way.  I was also getting tired of watching her not eat all of it in her food.  This way it’s done with.  Anyway, I don’t think they will be here until Tuesday.  I need something in the interim so I will get a small bag tomorrow.

I had an early dinner (more like supper) around 3.  I spoke to Liz about the vet visit.  She for some reason or another couldn’t keep straight which cat had the appointment.  I don’t know if I should be annoyed or amused.  I did tell her about the Vax4life program they have.  I explain the distemper is good for three years but also with this program it is free for the cat.

Work went well.  I got there earlier than usual but the parking lot seemed empty.  A few of my coworkers start at 7 in the morning so they park on the other side of the building.  I didn’t have too many HFCA’s to send out and few of the people who sent them got them when needed.    I didn’t have any patient CD’s to upload.  I will have a few first things Monday.

Well I need to close out.  I am starting to fall asleep here.  I might catch the Profiles in Folk radio show tonight if possible.

 

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Since I have been on recess from work I have been able to sleep in a little more than usual.  I actually get up and feed the cats and have gone back to bed until 8 in the morning.  Today was no different because I didn’t fall asleep until 3 or so. 

I spent the time surfing the net, trying to catch up on some of F-lists, and updating calendars, and doing some crossword puzzles.  I have a headache.

I put through some laundry and it should be finished soon.  All I need to do is fold the clothes on the cedar chest.  I will get those done.

The Finding Friends meetup have two text messaging groups now.  There are about 13 or 14 on each.  Sometimes it’s confusing but I did learn a couple of things.  Stefanie whom I love despite some things she is fan of is not a big Fan of Mei and didn’t want to include her on the main text group.  I may have mentioned that at times I have not always felt comfortable around Mei.  So she put it out as a majority rules and we all agreed to include Mei.  Stephanie has made it clear that a girl Heather will not be added to the one list.   I am not sure what happened but that can be awkward. 

The reason we have two lists Cyn got a new number and prefers us to use that number but now I am not sure which one to use at times.  I did send her a text asking why Stephanie doesn’t want to include Heather.  I don’t think I will get an answer but I would imagine it’s sort of the same thing with me and Mei.  

I decided to text Cyn and she called me back and we spent nearly an hour discussing the things that had transpired in the group.  I admitted that Mei has rubbed me the wrong way at times.  I would like to say I was shocked by the actions of Heather but to be honest I am not.   Gillion is treading lightly here because Heather hasn’t done the things she has done to others to her.

We got a dusting and mostly rain during the night and will get it again tonight but for now we have sun and some clouds and the temperature is 39 degrees.  By early afternoon the clouds were more prevalent and playing a game of hide and seek with the sun.

I ordered the stuffed bread for Saturday and will be picking it up before going to Dave’s place.  I just need to set a reminder and I think I did.

I had a chat with Mama Roberta and everyone there is fine.  She did share the news that our friend Dan is in Hospice.  It was sad.

Now that is late in the afternoon I am going to watch another NCIS marathon.  Many of us on a few forums suspect that USA will be letting go of their contract and that’s why its returning to IONTV next week.

 

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It certainly has been awhile hasn’t it?  I hope your holidays have been excellent.  Mine so far have.  Thanksgiving I spent it with Jim and his new Bride in Allentown.  The ride down was not bad.   I left work just around 3 and made it to the Connecticut Border by 4.  The traffic was slow moving an basically because of the Sun setting before 4. The Drive to the bridge formerly known as Tappan Zee was good but slow. I had only one problem and I missed the exit I needed I happened to be talking to my sister at the time.  I took the next exit and I was right as rain.  I made it to J&J’s by 7:15.  After some visiting and meeting a couple of the cats I headed to bed.

Thanksgiving began with a breakfast for us and getting acquainted with the cats (who came into my room at night) we got ready for our late afternoon meal.  We had to pick up our catered meal from Wegman’s Grocery Store.  We had turkey (it was sliced), we had string beans, gravy and stuffing, and butternut squash with spinach, and garlic mashed potatoes and an assortment of pies.  Janis’s Daughter Laurie and her boyfriend joined us.  I can’t remember when they left but after they did my brother went to bring a meal to a friend of theirs

On Friday we had a quiet morning and then made our way to Bethlehem for the ChristKindlemarkt festival. It was held at the Bethlehem Stacks.  Although it wasn’t snowing it could have easily because it was so cold and windy.  WE were there for two hours looking at all the vendors and crafts.  I don’t usually go to these things but I figured when I am “In Rome you do what Rome does.  I just did window shopping while Jim bought a few things including a handmade wooden ornament in the shape of a cat for me.

This area was really cool.  Youngling beer donated a tall tree built out of kegs for the area.  There was a cultural arts theater, and gallery plus the local PBS station in this area.  Every time I looked at the stacks I couldn’t help but think of the scene in the Wiz….in the factory?  Oh and for all you casino lovers Wind Creek was down the street from this.

After the Festival we came home I think it was nearly 5 or 6 and we ordered pizza from Wegman’s (they have everything there).  WE finished our meal with left over pie.  The rest of the night we did our own thing.  J&J got rid of cable so they either get on their computer to watch things or meetings and I got on my computer for a while.  Did I do any writing? No. 

I did get packed up for my trip home the next day and called it early night.

Saturday morning we had a semi early breakfast and then Janis had to go to work at Weight watchers.  After some sibling time I left for home.  Jim had given me a suggestion about where to get gas but as I was leaving I didn’t listen to the gps and ended up taking a wrong turn but still ended up on in the right direction an was on my way.  I stopped in Easton for gas.  The rest of the ride was fine.  It got busy by the time I got to Connecticut but I was home by 12:30.

When I arrived I found my stoop decorated.  Actually I was warned by Liz that my phantom decorator had been over and put a wood and apple wreath on the door and got rid of the plant and filled it with metal stand that has a gift wrapped on it. 

When I came inside the cats didn’t move much from their spots.  Sky was under the blankets of my bed and Tiger was under the coffee table.  While I was away Liz watched them for me.  She kept me apprised of the days.  She did notice a few of my concerns with Tiger (will explain shortly) and she says they basically ignored her or didn’t come out of their hiding spots.

The rest of the weekend was quiet.  I did get some cards down from upstairs.  I haven’t done them yet but I will I hope this weekend.

Since I have been home I haven’t done much in the way of the holiday.  I did look up a couple of things for the holiday but I am hoping to get them next week.

I have been trying to focus on the budgets and it’s still a challenge.  I did apply and was approved for the balance transfer and began making payments on that.  My hope is that the budget will get under control by the New Year.

Some of my appliances are beginning to show their age.  The washing machine continues to make a noise.  The stove shuts itself off while I am cooking at times.

HOA Board elections are coming up.   They sent out notice and self-nomination bids for those who want to nominate themselves.  I was thinking about it but decided not yet.  Then we got word recently that the fall clean-up was halted because the guy who does it for us just disappeared and hasn’t been returning any communication.

A couple of the board members came to look for the outdoor spicket for the hoses outside.  Apparently there isn’t one in my unit.  This was the longest amount of time that President Frank and Carol were in my unit. J

We got more news on my brother’s latest cancer diagnosis. If I haven’t mentioned it yet it’s in the bladder slow growing.  It’s not fatal or metastases’ but will keep an eye on it.  He doesn’t seem worried about it so I won’t worry about it either.

His kids are okay.  All Busy and getting into the holiday.  I will hate to break it to them but I won’t be getting them presents this year.  MY advisor really feels A) they haven’t gotten me anything in a few years and neither has Jim.

Liz woke up to a cold this morning.  She has been keeping busy and had a fairly quiet holiday.  She watched the twins for me.  She said they were rude to her.  She did notice that Tiger is struggling more than before.

WE discussed the budget this past week and I told her how I have been doing and she asked if I used the CC and I answered her.  She suggested that I make the CC payments both at the beginning of the month and on Time.  The first one is questionable but I will try and  the second is a no brainer.

I was able to see a few of her kids this past weekend.  First it was Rich and then Adam and his son Josh stopped by and also my cousin DLH.

Both Liz and I agree that Tiger is struggling more and more.  A number of times I have watched her and she will walk and all of a sudden stop and then drop her head to the floor.  Its not like when she is sleeping and her head turns upside down.  I can see she struggles to get her footing.  Then she starts walking (with some limping).  She is starting to not finish her food when given to her but she does eat from Sky’s bowl.  She does get up on the bed sometimes with no problems.  She gets on the couch with no problem most time and then sits down.  She has been sitting under the side table by the recliner or behind the entertainment center.  I am not sensing she is dying yet or she needs to be put down.  I do have to order more meds this week so I will mention it to the vet when she calls to get an update.

Sky is his sweet self.  Sleeping with me most nights and cuddling up with Tiger. Sometimes they get feisty with each other but every time I leave the house I talk to him like he can understand that I need him to take care of his sister but at the same time don’t aggravate her.

Work is going fine.  Some days are busier than others.  We are still preparing to move to the third floor but I recently learned that now we won’t be moving until after the recess. That’s okay by me because I haven’t made time to get rid of stuff I don’t need anymore. 

WE were informed last week from High up that parking for those who have to come to the campus will not have to pay until July 2022.  Right now I am relieved because I can use that money for something else.

New Covid regulations have come down as well.  Those who are working remotely have to follow the covid protocol. 

End of semester and holiday parties are starting.  We have a couple next week and few retirements as well.  I was supposed to go to one on Monday but it was cancelled.

The ladies guild has one more activity or two going before the New Year comes in.  I believe the lawn angels (that the lead priest has been complaining about) fundraiser is going on now.  We have our last general meeting this coming Tuesday and I think I picked out a nice spiritual prayer.  I just have to bring some type of appetizers.

The DTC has been quiet for the last couple of weeks. Actually it looks like I missed a Holiday gathering alert for this Tuesday but I already have the ladies guild. We had to clean out the campaign Headquarters but I couldn’t do it.

My meetup groups have been busy.  Walk with buddy has been having mini fests, and toy drives.  The hiking group has had a few hikes on weekends but I have been either busy with The finding friends activities or taking care of the house.

I think I am over the latest Lupus flare up.  I got a call just before I took off for Allentown from the Dr. Letting me know that the recent blood tests indicated I was in the midst of a flare up.  That would explain the aches and pains and me being tired a lot.  I have been going to bed early and taking my meds fairly regularly.  I have my infusion next week.

I actually have a number of appointments next week and I think the week after but I am not sure. 

 

 

 

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Last Saturday was the literary lunch at Cyns.  I left the house a little after 10 with my contribution to the afternoon festivities.  I stopped and talked with one of my neighbors and picked up the mail.  After that I took off and noticed it would be early so I stopped at McDonalds for breakfast and then kept going.  When I got to Guilford I went to the Business next to the parking lot and realized I went too far so I turned around and parked.  A few minutes later Gillion came and then we took off for Cyn’s place.

 

We were early and the first ones there.  A little awkward at first but it was short lived.  There were twelve originally supposed to be there but there were ten of us including Deb who I recently met.  Her husband is an anesthesiologist at Yale.

 

We spent the next several hours talking and eating.  It was great.  Unfortunately,  the whole theme about books never got off the ground nor did the trip to Book Barns.  As time progressed I was having gastro issues and made a few trips to the bathroom and I was getting nervous that I may clog up the toilet.  For some reason my memory of doing that very thing at my brother’s home when was still with his first wife keeps coming up.

 

The party broke up around 7 and we headed out.  The moon was so bright that night and made things beautiful.  I really enjoyed my time with Gillion.  We made it to the parking lot 45 minutes later and by 8:30 I was home.

 

I fed the cats, watched TV and then went to bed.

 

Sunday I wasn’t feeling all that great but had a visit from Liz.  As I look back at it I knew I should have cancelled.  It felt like she had to comment on anything I said or gave advice on what I should have done with the appetizers I brought.  This was all In between all the stories she had. 

 

For the last few days I have been getting angry and frustrated that at times I can’t  say anything.  Although Debra and I will be role playing in the future to be able to teach myself when to say something and when to let go.

 

Liz offered on Wednesday to find out the prices for haircuts and got me an appointment for Friday. 

 

On Friday I got to her house before one and we chatted until it was time to go.  As LIz and I got there the owner was leaving because wasn’t feeling well.  She had to go to the dr.  We had to wait a really long time for the person to do my hair but it was worth the wait.  It came to $63 dollars. 

 

I also asked her if she had any small black purses I could borrow and she found them and is letting me borrow them.  We went over a check list or suggestions that need to be done..  Including the place to get my car washed.

 

I actually told her about the car being broken into and she got worried.  sHe did ask if they took anything and I told her no.  It sounded like she was annoyed but before I jump to “she is judging  and criticizing mode” I will go with “concerned”..

 

I have gotten things all set for the wedding.  After a few hoop jumping the accommodations are all done.  I have put together outfits for the wedding.  Jim called two weeks in a row. Once he invited me to the theater and firing range.  This past weekend was to get phone contacts for Angel Bob’s family.

 

Work seems like a blur.  Considering the amount of time I spent there this week.  From Wednesday to Friday.  Spent the time scanning, and uploading CDs.  The union meeting was upbeat.  They were preparing for a couple more rallies and planning the ratification rally in October.  I don’t have all the details. 

 

LiseB is planning a Boss’s day celebration for Supervisor in October and is collecting monies for it.  I will be contributing on Monday.  I believe she is getting a gift card.

 

We did get a huge surprise.  Our CEO of YM is leaving on October 8.  There will be an interim CEO. The Dean had made the announcement on MOnday and on Tuesday  the CEO followed up.  He also spoke about it in the monthly town hall meetings.  It had some of my colleagues wondering what happened.

 

The bill for the dryer vent cleaning came this week.  For some reason I thought we didn’t have to pay.  He was wrong.  That was paid quickly along with the monthly condo fees.  I learned the trash hut near my unit went solar recently.  It automatically goes on at night when you enter and goes off after ten minutes.

 

My neighbor in Unit 10 is back in rehab for a broken shoulder.  I learned that yesterday while talking with her son-in-law.   It happened in the last several weeks.   New Neighbor Carole in Unit it 8 moved in this weekend.  I haven’t seen her yet.

 

I discovered I was overmedicating Tiger.  Now it's being done right.  VCA gave me 45 and reviewed the method again.  She is still limping but she surprised me several times this weekend.  I found her sleeping on the recliner, sleeping on one of the beds I got for her, she slept by the wall in the bedroom, and she hopped up by the bedroom window. 

 

Well it's time for me to move along and get house cleaning.  I have put it off for most of the weekend.  The bathroom got done a lot. 

 

Have a great one.

 

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I got up early and fed the best kitties ever.   I was relieved that there were no messes on the bathroom floor this morning.  So they got the appropriate praise.  They looked at me and waited to be fed.   I made some coffee first because I had gone to bed sometime after midnight I fell asleep in the middle of the star trek movie marathon.  It starts up later today so I may watch it.

I opened the windows already it feels nice.  I am not sure how long that’s going to last.  I noticed that a tree has already changed its leaves.  It was in the high 50’s by 7.  It was 80 degrees all day and sunny.

I took a look at the map and times for travel for the hike tonight in Vernon and  as much as I would like to go I would have to leave at 4 to get there on time (they are meeting at five thirty)  and I wouldn’t get home until  9:30.  I am not familiar with the area up there. 

I know that in the Finding friends meetup I have been home later like being at Cyn’ house until 10 but I see them more often than I do the people in the hiking group. 

I finally got a hold of LawyerBob2 and he has some good news.  It may not work out for me but there is a mechanism in place that allows us to force the Audit to take place.   It is at the discretion of the court of course but LawyerBob2 believes I meet the criteria.  He doesn’t recommend that I file a complaint to the Bar association because he could accuse us of Harassment.

The rest of the day I made pasta salad and I watched the Star Trek movie marathon on BBC.  I watched it until I fell asleep. 

I did attend the committee meeting.  We have a couple of actions that are coming up but it looks like we will be ratifying the contract next month.

I did spend time with my neighbors. 

 

Jul. 24th, 2021 12:06 pm

7 Years

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Friday was an anniversary or two my family said goodbye to Mom as she succumbed to pancreatic cancer.  She died with us around her and the Nursing staff that Liz got for her so that she would not die in a nursing home or hospital.  It was a very stressful and hard time.  Relationships were strained between siblings; I continued to work while mom was being cared for until the final days.  So called friends would interfere in things they had no right to. 

In the days leading up to the funeral some preparations had changed.  Jim had gone home to do some things and returned in time for the funeral service and his family followed.  I remember how annoyed Liz was at his behavior and treatment of her.  It frustrated me because it was unnecessary. 

Just as we were saying goodbye to Mom, the world was welcoming a four different short haired kittens.  They were eventually brought to Woodbridge Animal shelter.  Where they were taken care of, fed, watered, for the next 6 months.  All four kittens found homes.  Two of them came home with me on their 6month birthday.  Their Siblings eventually found homes according to the shelter employee I had run into at the grocery store. 

I probably won’t do too much for the birthdays except hugs and kisses.  I can’t believe they are seven.  I have to say I am very lucky to have them in my life.  They have made some unbearable times better for me.

Jun. 6th, 2021 08:56 pm

rambling

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Sorry for the disappearing for the last few days.  I started entries at work but never finish them and I have gone back to the old way of writing. Unfortunately, I tend to forget what has happened or something else comes up.

Work has been good.   I had to do the mail more than usual that day as DG was off and the way she wanted me to do it got me confused.  It’s the way she dates it the day before when certain parts of it come in.  I hope I did it the way she wants me:  Whenever the Health logic portion came it was dated the day it came in not the date it on the paper.   Believe me it confused me when she told me how she wanted it done.  

I felt like I was doing a lot of multitasking not only Friday or but Thursday as well because AC started her vacation but I don’t think it started off well as she wasn’t feeling well before she left on Tuesday.    I Hope she was okay.

I was glad to be home on Friday.  Since my plans for the weekend changed with Lisa I did some cleaning and relaxing.  The cleaning continued for most of Saturday morning (after the walk) and before Liz came by for a 2 hour visit.

I got a message from Lisa letting me know she couldn’t make our visit this weekend because her son was sick and she didn’t want to leave him alone.  So we will make it another time.  I just don’t know when because I have a few things coming up. 

Liz came by for our weekend coffee and she says she is cantankerous.  She is actually worried about lots of things.  As she says Life on Life’s terms.  She has to have kidney stone procedure soon.   She tells me Nelson fell a couple of weeks ago but hasn’t told anybody and he refuses to get the life alert.

 She is not happy with the current lawyer’s progress with getting rid of BB.  She feels he is taking much too long to get it done and she wants to know if we should get another lawyer that will guide me in the finances and whatever else and not resort  to threatening me with eviction like before.

She is angry at our brother.  She doesn’t feel she has done anything wrong over the years to deserve the treatment he has given her.  I don’t want to touch that and besides I told her as long as she is not angry with me at this moment I am good with that. 

She has had friends who are not well and she is sad for that.  It is scaring her I think.  She is also worrying or concerned about the future for Nelson and herself and that will mean for them.

WE talked bit more about the family reunion.  She says it will cost money for the pavilion in town plus the health inspector for the food and $20 for each person parking.  There may be another alternative that even Nelson jr. suggested but we are not sure.  I think it’s a place my work has been to for events.

This weekend I decided to go walking.  I took one in the morning that finished by 8 am.  It was two miles but part of the two miles was heading to a neighbor’s house within the complex.  In the afternoon around 6 I took another mile and ½ walk and that took about 1 hour and 12 minutes. 

I went this morning after I put together a roast in the slow cooker.  I walked the reverse of my morning walk yesterday.  My hope was to go the same route I did yesterday but in reverse but its way to hot and I don’t expect it to get to 60 degrees by then.  It got into the 70’s by 6.  The wind was picking up.    My hope was we might get some rain but it won’t be until tomorrow afternoon.

I was getting a little worried about Tiger.  She twitched while sleeping on the couch I woke her up and she meowed.  She keeps snagging her claw/paws on the rug and I can here when she is coming and going.    I will call the vet Monday..

Well its time for me to get some milk and bread and a few other  things….

 

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Earlier this afternoon I received a call from the Vet and Princess Tiger lily is fine.  I just have to keep feeding her more I also have to get that delightful fecal specimen and bring it to them.  They want to see her in six weeks.  That will be fine because that’s when I will be bringing her to get her nails trimmed again. I hope it will not be as expensive as it was this time. 

I still have to go through the annual checkup for Sky in two weeks   it will be the same amount I am guessing.  This makes it very easy not to send them to the vets with all this fees and cost.  No I am not planning on getting pet insurance.  It’s an expense I can’t afford ever.

Anyway, we are just sitting here on the couch quietly.  They are sleeping and I am surfing the net and trying to figure out what’s on tonight.  TVguide.com site did a major overhaul and is completely useless.  I thought I had it figured out but now I am not sure.

The only interesting thing on tonight seems to be X-men 3 the Last stand but I saw it last week. I guess I could just listen to my Friday night radio programs and fall asleep..

I managed to do laundry and that’s almost done. I had these big plans to clean the condo and that fell flat.

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Jan. 22nd, 2021 01:42 pm

Busy Week

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At least it feels like it's been a busy week.  We had a four day work week this week because of the Martin Luther King Jr Birthday.  We are caught up (for now) on the EOB scanning.  AC has been trying to catch up on all her work from her extended vacation.  I have been able to work on the refund scanning backlog for the last couple of days.  I finished a box that was started back in late 2020.  


The mail has been surprisingly low volume and DG/shadow has been able to do it.  I learned this week she is retiring in October.  I am not sure how I feel about that.  She has been here since she was 19.  We have worked in this office (or department) through all of its renamings since 1990.  It will be interesting to see what happens.  I am going to have to get her something.


We also got word from both the union and HR this week that our yearly raise is happening.  It will be in next week’s pay stub.  I have no idea what I will be getting after all the deductions (I am not about to figure it out because I am not good with that) but it will be very good with the debt and a cushion.  I hope. It means I need to readjust the budget-again.


We have been getting covid19 updates regularly.  At least I think we are.  There is always something in the inbox from the Administration.  I am still trying to figure out when I am supposed to be going.  Although I do see notifications that people 75 and older go right now.  I will wait for either a reminder from the hospital or the providers will ask.


We also got news of Drs, moving to new positions, retiring, and of course passing away.  I don’t think  I heard of the most recent one but there are still many people I haven’t met or have been introduced to yet and I am here almost 30 years.


Things at home.  Well let’s see I still get aggravated and or annoyed a lot with Sis.  She came over with our cousins blankets to cover the new furniture.  It took about 20 and she commented she could see the litter on the small recliner.   It was fuzz.  


Then we took a few moments to relax and she mentioned the incident on the Anchor Beach-Woodmont group from last weekend.  She did admit that FB has its moments and she wanted to know what happened.   I said one did give me a hard time but a friend of mine came to my defense.  The other woman and I were fine.  I told her I had received an email like most if not all the people in the borough.  SHe threw out her patented  “Did it have to be said by you” crap.  I look back at as:  Speak only when spoken to?  


Then we worked on getting valances and curtains for the windows.  Apparently it didn't go through at first so I let her know later and she took care of it.  I am not sure when they are coming.  She also said next week the other blinds are coming sometime too.  She wants me to look for the other rooms too.  We did focus on the kitchen.


I admit she was helpful with the mattress delivery (that came earlier than scheduled).  It is annoying that that happened.  THen the guy texts me back saying he stopped for food. Excuse me?  I made my sister rush over to the condo so she could be there and now you are going for food?  The box spring had a tear in it so they took a picture and hopefully will replace it.  THe mattress doesn’t fit the bed frame so we had to order a new one with a headboard.  Liz did that last night.  Even that was an exercise in futility.  Now she is saying oh you really don’t need a headboard.  Considering the one you were showing me was $125? The bed frame I saw was almost $89.    It may have been all innocent in her eyes but to me she wasn’t listening and trying to control.  Oh and they will be here Wednesday.


She did also notice the cats on the furniture and she asked if I sprayed it again.  She also told me that one of them (I am thinking it was Tiger) was inside the Box Mattress/foundation mattress etc) and scared the shit out of the delivery guy.  


So I got home around 3:30 relaxed for a bit and treated the kitties.  Eventually putting the tiger into the crate with little to no problems.  Even taking her out a little early to hold her and comfort her.  She was literally rolling around in the crate (the collapsable one.  We took off just around 4:30 for the Vet.  I called in and they came to take her.


It seemed like forever as they called me and said she is very underweight and I was feeling guilty (we noticed she was underweight).  I was hoping nothing else was wrong with her and they were reassuring that after the bloodwork results come in the next couple of days.


They recommended a few things.  Foodwise separated them at feeding time. I started that when I got home.  Semi successful, and feed her more than I have been (like a full can of the wet food) and more of the dry.


I also had checked with them earlier in the day about the nail trimming (liz wanted me to learn how to do it) and they recommended that every six weeks for a fee of $18 that I come in and have THEM do it.  Liz asked me if I could afford it and I said yeah.  I know I couldn’t do it.


In the end the whole thing cost about $300 plus.  I was shocked.  Even though they have a Vaccination program called Vax4Life.   It would be $125 once and it lasts for the entire life of the pet.  I can’t do that.  Its going to be the same amount for Sky next month.


I spent most of the night hovering over her.  Holding her, cuddling with her and allowing them to sit/sleep on the couch.  I even had her sleep with me and I just couldn’t sleep (the coffee didn’t help either).


I did watch Moana and Twister and of course This Old House.  I also was working with Mama on the budget things.  I had spoken to her earlier in the afternoon about some things.  She feels that there are too many people involved with the lawyer and they shouldn’t be.  She is basing this only on things I have told her about them.  


I did give her access to my credit card accounts and she is going to look them over and see if there is anything that can be rectified.  I think she is gonna call me tonight or over the weekend.



My hope is to do the weekly cleaning tonight.  I know that usually I want my Friday night to be relaxed but I want to get it done and do other things for the weekend.


I had a great virtual meetup with the Finding Friends Group.  The original Owner Lori B was there from her home in Texas.  She gave up the group many years ago so that she and her husband could travel in a Van around the country and find a place to live (they were tired of this state).  She is going to be a guest speaker in February but she will be joining us from now on when she can.  I was excited to see that Gillion has added a Virtual cocktail party every two weeks along with the in person meetup in Guilford.


The Hiking with Friends group have had a few activities this past month.  I haven’t attended, not sure I want to be in person yet.Tomorrow there is a Hike in Goodwin State Park in Hampton CT.  Maybe one day.


The weather the past week has been cold, sunny at times and cloudy at other times. We had a dusting Wednesday morning and a few flurries later on in the day.  Its supposed to be very cold this weekend and there is a forecast of snow showers for Tuesday.  I was really hoping for a major snowstorm this month or in February.  It looks like we may get one according to the Farmer’s Almanac.


Well I will close out for now...


PS: Yes I know I didn’t mention the Inauguration. I saw a little bit of it and grew tired of the fashion comments.  I still do not understand the Memes that are going through with Bernie Sanders.  .As I said to Siduri.  I am missing the point.







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Dear Debra:

It is now 2 in the afternoon.  I have Law & Order on the Bounce channel. At the sane tune I have Classical Music on the local Public Radio Station.

My early morning project of cleaning the car seats was an utter failure.  I used diluted Resolve and all it did was to clean it for a short time.  The stains were still there.  So Liz’s suggestion to use carpet cleaning and upholstery cleaning was not a good one.  I wonder if the service department can do something about at the Honda place.  I am supposed to get the car serviced this month.

I had some lunch, and snacks and trying hard to not graze or head off to the store and get a cake or sweets but it’s getting harder and harder.  I did have some more food by the time I was going to bed.

I spent the rest of the day either surfing the web or sleeping or watching TV.  I had a visit from a neighbor who was passing out Cat calendars and of course I got one.  We had a lovely visit. 

The cats got up around 3:30 and were hungry.  I put off feeding them for as long as I could.  They sounded like they were dying. For the rest of the night they were quiet and either sleeping on the couch with me or on the bed.

Now that it is 10 and I am heading to bed.  Its been raining for the last few hours now.  I didn’t hear it even start.  I was watching the Smithsonian channel’s Train shows.  I actually fell asleep myself.  I was glad that I had taken a shower before falling asleep.

I don’t know what’s up but I am a little stiff in the legs and it hurts I have taken some Tylenol and hopefully it will be okay.

I think some sleep is in order.

Good night.

 

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Hey sorry for the Absentee posts.  It’s been a busy week again and I haven’t found time to write. 

        Things around here are fine.  Family is good.  Sis had bronchitis but seems to be better.  Bro is good.  Angel bro’s family seems well and on vacation again.  I do need to make decisions about the niece’s wedding shower next week.  Sis isn’t going because of what else?   The kitties had a birthday this week.  WE have a family zoom this weekend again.   It will be great to see them again.

        The city is trying to make plans for the school year in September.  There was a webinar with the BOE this past week.  I don’t know the end results of it.  I am sure it will be in the papers soon or I missed it.

        There was a developer who wants to build on the old Smith Funeral home property and make it mixed residential and business and it was not approved by the P&Z this week.  The crux of it is the Smith funeral home is considered a historical home and so was the surrounding buildings.  That’s all I know about it.

Late this afternoon I learned that an Iconic bar in town called Beachcomber’s is permanently closed and up for sale.  I have driven by probably a gazillion times but never went in it.  It’s a dive.  Its not something I do often anyway.

Work is getting into a better routine for me.  Shadow and I had some roads to work on and I think it’s better but I could be kidding myself.  I had a demo session this morning for scanning and indexing all the different correspondence we get (from patients, attorney, and other sources) but it will be the next task that SR told me about the first week I was back.

The area Committee meeting was an epic fail this week.  Someone forgot to tell us there was a password and no one was able to get into the zoom meeting.  However the push to attend the caravan event next week is being pushed and the level of activities is now ramping because issues are not being resolved in negotiations.

Health wise this week had a few days of not strict dieting (with national ice cream day I had to go for ice cream), I have been tracking the food better.  I missed exercise class on Monday showed up an hour late (and they don’t have classes at 6:30 for now).

  I have been walking at lunchtime.  The only time I made 10K was yesterday the other two or three days not so much.  I do have to say I might get to the 10K goal sometime this evening. 

   I cracked my wisdom tooth at dinner last night called the Dentist.  I called again and within the hour I had an appointment for tonight at 6:15.  I have been leery about eating or chewing anything hard.  He was able to get the broken piece out but he wants me to see an oral surgeon for the rest and decide if I need an implant (I don’t).  I didn’t get out of there until 8.  I stopped at Panera for soup.  Saw some beautiful Cloud formations..

 I have my infusion and an eye appointment next Wednesday at 3.  I believe it will be the eye test to check for plaquenil…They call it something Vision test (don’t be wise asses). 

I went to the Rose’s Orchard Meetup last night and we had a great time.  Met a new person who is really great to talk to and is a pet sitter, she had some really great views on pets and pet sitting.  I did share the news about Neighbors K&S with her (she knows K through the dentist).

I left there sometime after 8 as it was supposed to start storming and I still had to put the garbage out.  I am planning on going next week if my eyes are settled in by then.

I am not sure if I am attending the sip and soak meet up yet (the shower is the same time).

I will be going on the solo hike at McLean’s Nature preserve on Saturday.  I really wish I wasn’t going alone but I am not really sure if I will or not. 

 

 

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I don’t know what it is but I am feeling better today than I have in a few days.  The sun is shining and I think its well into the 70s at this point.  Partial clouds but no rain expected.

Yesterday turned out great.   There was a power failure on the campus that made connecting through VPN hard and for the others to use epic and I thought I would miss the Embracing change class.    I didn’t.  The power outage seemed to be resolved by the end of the business day.

So the class was very good.  I had to sign into the zoom with my email and password and connect through Facebook.  It used my profile picture and I later found I could undo it to be live.  I was afraid I messed up on the zoom log on for future zoom activities.  We will just have to see.

I learned a lot from this class it has a lot of good tips and information on dealing with change.  I just have to remember to do the work for these classes prior.  As usual when they ask this questions to rate yourself I always feel I am all encompassing.  I can’t compartmentalize myself.  We had the class until 3:15.  A rain storm came through for most of it.

After the class I got a notification from a fellow Dem who told me a hacker got to my email again (and this time I also received it) I did a check and it seems okay.  I probably will have to change the password for the Gmail because it says the one I use to sign up to the computer seems fine.  But the point is I reset the outlook portion for my Gmail account.  Don’t ask me how I did it but I think I just winged it (followed the instructions without panicking.)

The storm that came through was a thunderstorm and a little lightening but the claps of thunder scared Sky so much he ran upstairs and missed his dinner.  Tiger ate both of their dinners.  When he finally came down again I gave him more but had to shoo her away.

I think I am overcompensating still with the cats.  I fed them treats at least twice yesterday.  I made sure I was gentle with them both in tone and voice and kept picking sky up to the point where I imagined him saying be gone.  I check on them every chance I get.  I pet them and reassure them they are loved all the time.  Tiger still finds ways to run or semi hides but allows me to pet her.  They both rub up against me. Right now they are both sleeping or relaxing under the beds.  A part of me worries (too much you will probably say) they will do things in spite (the peeing on various things), make messes all around.  They threw the litter out of the downstairs box so that had to be vacuumed.  I know it will be justified.  I don’t want to be a bad parent.  This is why I don’t have human children.  So that’s my neurosis for today.

The rain was starting to let up as I was making my way to the meetup.  There were about 7 of us. One of the ladies I met on our Lavender farm meetup.  There were others supposed to come but they had declined for one reason or another.   I broke down and got some frozen yogurt.    JackieB came later with pastries for Cyn’s birthday.  We had a great time talking about a lot of different things. 

I left around 8 with every intention of going to the gym. However I got back to town by 20 of 9 and couldn’t remember if the gym closed at 9 or not.  Google says it was open to ten but by then I was tired.  I could have gone but I was unsure.  I thought I would go for a walk but no.

When I got home did the normal routine.  Got the garbage and recycle stuff out and made tea and headed to bed.  I did end up doing some stuff on the computer but ended up sleeping.

Today so far did some odds and ends, including bills and updating files.  I still have lots more to do.  Of course the early morning routine was good this time I feel asleep for an hour and it felt good.  The kitties were doing their own things. 

I called JOC to see if she wanted to walk but she had too much to do this week so we will make it another time.  I did tell her I am going back to work next week and I let her know I may have things to do in the evenings. So we agreed it would be one day at time or even on the weekends.

Well I need to go for now so see ya.

 

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We did our normal routine this morning and I decided to lay down for at least an hour.  JOC and I were supposed to go for a walk at 8:30 and while I was showering and getting ready she sent me a text.  Telling me she would have to bale.  So I have been slow on moving and resorting to watching TV again.

It is overcast right now and 70 degrees out and it feels nice.  The forecast is calling for showers today.  My front yard looks great or at least better but the back yard not so much. I may have said this but I would much prefer that Mother Nature do the work instead of me hauling the hose all over the place.  Besides that our water authority (which is the water company) is asking the residents of the city not to water the lawns right now.  The water has been brown in some areas.

Supervisor Bob sent out an email to the staff recalling us to work on Monday.  He did say some of us will be moved around to follow social distancing requirements.  This will be very interesting.  I am wondering if I will still have my scanning desk.  I have a feeling the first few days I am back will be focusing on the mail and later on the scanning.

I played some Words with Friends this morning and this guy from NY started chatting with me.  I guess I decided to play against him and I am now feeling like I am breaking a rule I made. I mean I play with my male cousins so that’s okay but if they use this as a way to get dates they will be in one huge disappointment.

 A woman named Moriah from NY joined the finding friends for Women Meetup group contacted me.  We chatted this morning.  I asked her if she was attending the meetup tomorrow night but she said no.  I am not sure what she meant the assignment. So those alarm bells are starting to go off like they did a few years back when some very odd women wanted to chat with a few of us on a few different platforms.  I get really uncomfortable when People od that.  A few men somehow got to comment on group activities.  It’s a group for women.

I have been debating whether or not I should go and do my grocery shopping now or wait a few more days.  I have enough meals (fish stuff) but I still need sides.  I am not big on making salads but eating them I am.  I also need milk and cream for the coffee. Black coffee doesn’t work for me.

I chatted with DO today about the holiday and diet.  He keeps asking what Alex believes is good.  He wants me to eat to survive.  Not everything has to be enjoyed.  I think he understands now.  He suggested oatmeal when I told him I haven’t had cereal.  He asked me what recommendations Alex make for diets.  (I think I wrote that two different ways to mean the same thing). 

I went to the committee meeting this afternoon.  What I have found out is my colleagues on my team are objecting to having to return to the office.  They can’t do their job from home and they feel they should be able to.  Committee members feel these people should come in and do their job.  BV is urging compassion.  I am guessing they (those who don’t want to come in) feel it’s not safe to go into the office.  There will be social distancing.  I pointed out this is the same issues that started back in March.  BV says that future contracts will perhaps one day have to include working remotely.   From what can gather they will be talking to those people in our area about the choices they have or what the path will be taken.

It’s been a couple of hours now and I reviewed what I have to do for class tomorrow and it’s going to be a pain the ass.  I am going to have to go to it an hour earlier and whatever I needed to print out I won’t be able to.  I want to be able t make sure I connect to whatever soon.

The cats were annoying me and I yelled at them.  They wanted to get fed and its not their dinner time or wasn’t.  Now they won’t get near me (I also tried to catch tiger and she hissed at me)..I have been trying apologize to them like they would understand and right now they are running from me.  I am probably acting stupid but I am not feeling very appreciated by them right now.

 

 

 

 

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