Allentown Day 1

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My trip down yesterday was nice.  I made a few stops before reaching the highway.  Gillion called me while I was at the bank and comparing routes and traffic levels.    I got on with little to no problem.  I stopped in Fairfield as traffic began to get heavier but was still moving.   A deer was visible in the middle of the day.  I appreciated that the deer remained safely away from the traffic.

I do not recall the exact time I arrived at Governor Cuomo's bridge, but the ride proceeded at a steady pace despite occasional periods when the speed seemed inconsistent. 

It was around lunchtime that I stopped for rest break in Pompton Lake.  I had lunch at a Wendy’s and another check in call from Gillion.  It made me feel good.  It was shortly after that I checked in with Laura in Old Saybrook.  She told me about the state dinner party she went to and how much she enjoyed it.

Approximately 86 miles remained before I arrived at my brother and sister-in-law's residence.   Although I tried to be patient, my impatience grew.   Near the end of the drive there seemed to be construction and probably school and early weekend traffic 

Just as I got into Allentown, Jim Called me and to see how it was going.  I told him I was 10 minutes away and I probably was less than that. 

When I arrived, Janis greeted me with a hug and laughter. Jim then came down on his new stairlift.   They love it.  I tried, but it failed.

We spent time catching up, and then around 4 we headed to Costco to get some things for the weekend (meals) and some clothes for Jim, and I got a new belt.  So that Jim would be nagging at me.  He was basically doing that while I chatted with his cat instead of people.

After visiting Costco, we returned home, ate some snacks, and ordered pizza.   Janis and I picked it up and then brought it home and we ate it and then dessert.  I offered to walk with Jim before it became too late, but I later withdrew my offer because I was tired.

I got ready for bed by 8 and Janis started some laundry for us.  I tried to sleep but by 10 I got back on the computer.  I was grateful that she helped me access the internet.

While Janis goes to WW Jim and I will take a walk at some point.  Then we will have breakfast. They may have some plans for us, but I’m not sure what they are or if they’ll change because a storm is expected this afternoon

 

After talking with Jim mid-morning, we decided to get my car washed. After his online meeting, I’ll have time to shower and write, then we might go for a walk or visit a nearby museum.

The conversations we had were enjoyable.   He maintains a positive outlook on life and strives to live by it. He mentioned that he is not disappointed with me.   He’s not responsible for me.  He has said so much that I couldn’t begin to tell but it is in my brain or heart and I need to put into practice what works for me.