katesthoughts

Last night was a lot of fun despite a few awkward moments I felt with another member. One she was confused to why we had a celebration for one couple whom she thought was already married and she was verbal about it. Not abusive but she could have asked quietly (which if I think about it she may have been). She also isn’t fond of Steph. She either spoke to me abruptly or did not respond when Lisa greeted her.

Some time after I wrote the previous thoughts Lisa called me and we spent a significant amount of time talking about last night and our previous encounters. I Have discovered she and I are of the same mindset. We both have the Narcistic family members (our sisters) and how we deal with them. Interactions with others etc. It helps me to understand where she is coming from.

We ate first. I didn’t have the wings, but I sure did have everything else. Lots of Jungle juice there were croissant dogs, salads, fruit, and pita with hummus and of course cookies, and a champagne toast

We then watched the movie. It was cute but this was the other awkward time with Lisa. She criticized and inquired. She didn't recognize Paul Giamatti and mistakenly identified an actor as the late Val Kilmer. It wasn’t but I let pass. After looking at one of the last pictures of Val Kilmer I can see how she thought that. She thought parts of it were unrealistic, and for kids. I looked at her and said 1) Disney and Neither was Pirates”

After the movie ended, the group dispersed and the LRC game was not initiated; however, a few of the other planned games were played. I left around 10:30 and was home a little after 11.

I was heading to bed shortly after that. Sky followed as well. He was very cuddly for a few hours and continued to do so this morning.

Most of this morning was a lazy morning watching TV, surfing the net, a few things here and there. While I was reading some blogs It came to my attention that yesterday was Mom’s Anniversary of Death. I don’t know why It didn’t even register yesterday. Maybe because I do have so many mixed feelings about her these days.

It's later in the day, so I'm going to clean. I don’t really want to leave it until next weekend either.